I am very much Genital Avoidant when it comes to my penis,

meaning, I don't want a sexually partner to touch or pay attention to my penis.

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"I never want to be seen with an erection when with a boyfriend, my role is to be a girl for him"

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As described concerning the Travestis's style below

 

Travesti's want their boyfriends to be men, not viados (homosexual). They require, in other words, their boyfriends to be symbolically and socially different from, not similar to themselves.

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Therefore, a travesti does not want her boyfriend to notice, comment on, or in any way concern himself with her penis, even during sex.

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Sex with a boy-friend, consists, for the most part, of the travesti sucking the boyfriend's penis and of her boyfriend penetrating her, most often from behind, with the travesti's on all fours or lying on her stomach on the bed.

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If the boy-friend touches the travesti at all, he will caress her breasts and perhaps kiss her.

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But no contact with the travesti's penis will occur, which means, according to most travestis I have spoken to, that travestis do not usually have orgasms during sex with their boyfriends.​​​​​

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My style of having sex with boyfriends is just the same as the Travesti's as above.